THE INHERENT DANGERS OF LOVE SPELLS

love spell

Tue, 16 Dec 2008 10:41:25 +0100

hi , i have done several love spell , even hired spell casters to perform spell for me but never received any positive result , can anyone help me - ANAND NARAIN

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Mon, 15 Dec 2008 19:58:32 +0100

That's exactly what I'm screaming.;) I've learned to be me without setting off the "satanist" bells on those around me. Which is funny cause one of my best friends was a satanist. He was the sweetest guy you could ever meet. I really miss him this time of year. - April (heroheidR)

I hear ya!

Mon, 15 Dec 2008 16:41:24 +0100

Me mate and I live in a rather podunk little town in Southeastern KY. And it's got more christian churches than businesses around here! Most of them Baptist! :P Believe me, I know what your saying April...in the 3 years since we ended up here we've not found one single other pagan person period. People get a bit funny around here if they know you're a witch. You get these bible bangers showing up on your doorstep telling you how your going to go to hell, and some of those buggers can get violent. Not to mention getting labled as a satanist or some such muck.:( - Simone

Hey April...

Mon, 15 Dec 2008 16:33:28 +0100

Check yer IM...;) - Simone

ooookay...

Mon, 15 Dec 2008 16:31:56 +0100

Brian, I have done a counter-charm, just like I said I would...and we will see what happens. However, I much caution you that it sounds like this girl has her own problems to sort out and may not be inclined for any sort of a serious relationship. Oh, and it sounds like she's just using you for a money bag. My advice is to stop it and drop it dude. - Simone

Think wise

Mon, 15 Dec 2008 10:56:33 +0100

That is a good point and a goood step that I need to make. I been doing it for awhile and you are right it needs to stop. That other guy is pretty much broke and what he did is wrong. He can't take care of his self rather than a family. I will do that of what you said because it gets boring. Well, thank you - Chicago

thruholewizard

Mon, 15 Dec 2008 05:52:31 +0100

Brian, I am very new to the practice,however before one is to seek the divine it makes more sense to look at the psychology of the relationship.The lady in question is obviously using you (she shows up on paydays looking for "help") and you are enabling her to lead the life style you are trying to save her from by being the Patsy. I believe that if you really "love" her then you desire that which is best for her ....stop "helping her on pay days is the first move (no matter what she says ) tell her how you feel for her and how it hurts you to see her this way . This will stop her from abusing you and make her realize what it is she sees in this new beau. (think drugs or alcohol) either way be careful what you wish for, she may be playing the other gentle man the same way . this looks very dangerous to me ....and the last place I would use the craft. Think what makes her so special to you ? What advice would you give your brother if he came to you with the same problem ? - stephen j hallahan

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Sat, 13 Dec 2008 14:44:11 +0100

Listen I don't think that love spells are wrong but... This is where I'm sitting: It would be one thing for you to ask how to do it yourself, but no. You want someone else to muck around in your affairs and that is my first problem with this. The second is that things you say aren't adding up. A lot of visible magic in Georgia?? Like it wasn't more public in Chicago? Honey I live in South Carolina and I have to watch every step. If I'm too public I could get killed for my beliefs. Georgia is worse. There is a reason that she keeps expecting you to help her. Just what was the nature of your relationship? The whole truth not just parts and pieces. If you want any hope of her coming back it's time to get honest, and you have to start by being honest with yourself. - April (heroheidR)

The choice comes from the heart not from the magick

Sat, 13 Dec 2008 13:59:25 +0100

You may think love spells are wrong but they are just a way of life to help a person to make the correct choices in life than it is ok to break them long as you know that the person is able to take care of theirselves and not to strugglle in life. It is a way to help than to let the person chose who they want and how they want that person not to trap that person for life. I am not try to trap that person but wanting to help that person that I love. If a person do a love spell just because they are wrong and should be punished upon the law. It woulld be selffish but I am not that way to do such of a thing. Things of a love spell should be broken for a crave oof greed and misconduct of a pass relationship that really don't last because a person just want everything their way and don't want to see things different. Let the person chose after they have got theirself on the right track. Love all of you for the comments and will talk later. Brian. Chicago - Chicago

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Sat, 13 Dec 2008 13:49:46 +0100

I did nothing of any sort to do any harm to no one, but greed and jeolous people are always around to destroy you if you are not careful. I am from Chicago and this is the first time I had experienced this to happen to me and it is very upsetting that people will pray on other people to get what they want by any means neccessary. I have had no contact with people like that. This is just a greed rage to get what they want. I have talked to her and she is not happy but try to play it off and I know her better than what is going on. This is not a game to me and this needs to come to an end, butg we all know it is just the beginnig of a new sector in life that we all would have to stumble across one day. But this is the time where she would have to chose on her own and not on magick to make a follow through another person wants and needs to find a way to complete a puzzle with missing pieces thatg just don't fit. This state of Georgia has alot of witchcraft going on and I don't understand it, but now I am ready to know more about the culture and to folllow through with the learning and practice not to make people create a new forced life but to get an understanding of correction and of better judgemnet of a new creation on fulling in the gap where they had missed out on. I am not wnating to just fall for me but to chose on herf own than I can accept her choice of what she want. But if she keeps coming to me every payday asking me for money something just don't add up. What do you think? Thats how I know something just ain't right. If this guy really want her she would not come to me asking me to help her, he would be able to take care of her just like I was. I just her to choose on her own than I can go on with my life and close this out than know ing that something just isn' right for both of us. - Chicago

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Sat, 13 Dec 2008 08:30:50 +0100

Great response, Douglas. Yeah Simone I do. I'm heroheather. - April (heroheidR)

Author's Followup Notes

Fri, 12 Dec 2008 14:14:12 +0100

Well, from all the previous comments above you can see what a pickle people can put themselves in by using magic to force their will on other people's hearts. What everyone calls 'Love Spells' are usually just 'Lust Spells' with a prettier name. They have one thing in common, their entire purpose is to TRAP another person against their will and divert their personal course in life away from what they are here to accomplish. Overcoming the baser instincts of the animal flesh is a major stepping stone in advancing to a higher more enlightened spiritual level. If you are alone in this life, meditate to see if you can determine why. It may be you have previously chosen this path so as to focus on a greater work without the distractions of partnership commitments. Are you possibly paying a karmic debt for having been a real [donkey] towards someone in the past? Whatever, the greatest good you can do for yourself is to work on becoming a loveable person and love will most likely find you in the end. The universe is a huge place and the cycles can turn on some pretty big wheels. Try using your power to help the overall condition of humanity rather than letting yourself become a self-centered bit of grit in the gears by aiming for such low desires. Peace & Excelsior! - Douglas Mefford

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Thu, 11 Dec 2008 23:42:07 +0100

Thanks all I really enjoyed the read. Try to be a little more helpfull to people. U know how bad it can be.I pick up alot on all of this. Keep your head up.and read about harming and changeing free will. I know it always seems like the new lover has changed them. but it will all work out in the end trust me.Look for that true love!!! Peace all - Sir tris

I agree...

Thu, 11 Dec 2008 21:47:26 +0100

I agree April. Frankly I would like to speak more privately with you If I could. Do you use yahoo IM? - Simone

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Thu, 11 Dec 2008 21:11:30 +0100

Simone, I have a suspision that we are not getting the whole of the story in any sense. There are things that he said that just don't add up. Like how can his girfriend choosing a different man interfere with his livelyhood and his ability to make a living? And this despiration... Well it feels pathological. I get very bad feelings off this one. - April (heroheidR)

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Thu, 11 Dec 2008 14:40:16 +0100

Well said April. I have the sneaking suspicion that Brian did a spell himself and it's backfired...which will happen with such spells if it bounces back on the sender. Which is why I don't do such things for [i]anyone.[/i] Like I said...I can do a counter-charm...and I will...and as to who it affects is pretty well up to the powers. ;) - Simone

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Thu, 11 Dec 2008 11:18:00 +0100

Brian, It sounds to me like you messed up. I don't think anyone ruined your holidays except for maybe you. How about this... Whatever happened, I don't really care, it's not important here nor will it make a difference on my advice. Appologise and mean it this time. Don't do whatever you did again. If you need to get professional help for the problem... Do it. And even with all of that don't expect her to come back. You may have hurt her too badly for her to ever be able to take you back into her life. It's rather obvious to me ( I just went through something rather similar except I was on her end of things) that either you are jumping to conclusions, or are just flat out not listening to her at all. And now you want someone else to do magic for you. < GRRRRRRRR> I have to go before I say something REALLY rude. - April (heroheidR)

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Wed, 10 Dec 2008 12:54:22 +0100

Okay...I'll do the counter-charm the first day of the waning moon...just after the full moon...and we'll see what happens. Just remember that she does have free-will...and I can't guarantee she will come running back to you. Fair enough? - Simone

got your information

Wed, 10 Dec 2008 12:33:02 +0100

Her name is Latarsha Williams and his name is David Adams - Brian

Hmmm.

Wed, 10 Dec 2008 12:14:07 +0100

Brian...I don't do "love" spells...but if this guy cast one on this girl then I could break that spell and then we can see what this girl wants to do. If you would read my comment you would see that I made that pretty clear. I need to know her name and his name. - Simone