| THE INHERENT DANGERS OF LOVE SPELLS |
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It is a basic human need to desire love and affection from another person. To this end many forlorn folk seek surcease from their loneliness through the use of magic and witchcraft to bring someone's affection to them. While this may sound like a noble cause on the surface, the use of love spells is a very dangerous and potentially damaging activity. As well as writing and researching on the paranormal and occult phenomena that intersect our reality, Douglas Mefford can also be found helping others spread literature to the world at Bell, Book & Candle Publications or hanging out at his bungalow in Greenwoods Village. 
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  written by ROMANA, November 15, 2008
ALL I CAN SAY IS "BLESS YOU AND HANG IN THERE!" THINGS HAVE A WAY OF WORKING THEMSELVES OUT.
 written by Donna Ruth Roberts, November 16, 2008
I was doing alot of thinking last night,& I desided to break the spell & let it go I need to heal my heart.
Just think every thing happens for a reason,so after a long night of serching the answer was here all the time I just had to open my eyes. Besides its his mistakes that are going to bite him in the butt & I know I am a pure hearted woman,I just got caught in the moment. I was on my knees last night & I actully felt a presence holding me & teling me that every thing was going to be just fine,it was an awsome feeling & I wish that everyone that is in destress could feel what I felt last night. I could smell him & feel him like he was human. I still have some feelings to deal with,but my husbends is just starting(this presence told me). I could go into details but I do beleve this is something that I would need to share with someone one on one. Thanks....Dove
written by ROMANA, November 17, 2008
I'M SO GLAD THAT YOU ARE ABLE TO COME TO TERMS WITH THAT. A LITTLE PECE OF MIND GOES A LONG WAY.
I FELT KIND LIKE THAT BEFORE AND IT WAS MY THAT TIME SON IN LAW. WHAT HE DID TO MY DAUDGTER AND THAT TIME UNBORN GRANDCHILD WAS.... I DON'T EVEN WANT TO RELIVE IT. I CHOOSE THE "HIGH ROAD" THAT TIME AFTER DOING A LOT OF PRAYING AND LEFT IT IN THE HANDS OF MOTHER GOD. BELIEVE ME I WAS ON THE BRINCK OF TAKEN HIM OUT, BUT EVERYTHING WILL WORK ITSELF OUT. IF YOU EVER DECIDE TO TALK YOU MIGHT WANT TO PM . HAVE A BLESSED DAY.
 written by Katrina, December 02, 2008
Why get so hung up over one asshole? If you have the idea in your mind that there are plenty of fish in the sea they will all be at your beckon call. Ladies be careful about thiking that your man is the only one for you and is sooo, different than the last a-hole. This is where you fuck up and in turn degrade yourselfs. Men are selfish, open your eyes, they are born that way and they die that way. Don't mess with your own karma by putting a spell on someone who may not be worth it. There are plenty more fish in the sea and despite how they may look. Smell no better that the last throw back. KEEP THIS IN MIND.
That said there are some men in the world who still have A FEW, gentlemanly qualitys. Usually raised by a strong and demanding mother! Katrina
 written by Simone, December 06, 2008
Love spells are just wrong. They are a selfish and vicious thing to do to anyone...and sooner or later it all comes back on the person who cast it. Also, I have to disagree that all men are selfish assholes, and the ones who aren't are raised by strong and demanding mothers. Those men raised by those kinds of women in my experience are pussified mama's boys with an Oedipus complex. I have been married to an incredibly wonderful man for 13 years. He is my soul-mate. He is a wizard and I am a witch. He's never demanding nor has he ever tried to dominate or control. We are partners in everything we do. We've had many lifetimes together, but there have been those lonely lifetimes we weren't. Everyone has a Karmic debt to pay...don't make it worse by doing something as petty as a "love" spell.
 written by Brian, December 09, 2008
If you get what you want there should be no problem of keeping it. I wish someone would do that for me
written by Brian, December 09, 2008
call me at work and I can explain why 404-344-6065 extention 222. brian rogers or email me at
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. I check my email everyday please call me I need the help
written by Simone, December 10, 2008
Check your email Brian...I sent you an email about your inquiry and predicament...
written by Brian, December 10, 2008
Well no matter what I just still want it done becauuse this guy has inferred with my life my doing it to her. My sprit just knows and I have seen it through a vision. This guy needs to be stopped. We was working things out and this bullshit happened. Just like that. Can you do a love spell for me? What are debts to be paid fro this? Email me
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and you can text me your answer 678-437-9679 and I can give you the information you need. Please help this is what I want. This guy is from Georgia and its alot of things thatg goes on down here and he probably knows someone. This needs to stop. This is what I want.
written by Brian, December 10, 2008
Well to me it doesn't matter anymore about debts. Its about respecting another mans livelyhood and what he doing to better himself. I just want her back as soon as possible. Please help me.
written by Brian, December 10, 2008
I not selffish I just had something going on til it was interupted by a selffish asshole. My holidays were just ruined because of him. PLEASE LET ME KNOW. TEXT ME AN ANSWER 678-437-9679 BRIAN. VERY URGENT. I just want her back
written by Simone, December 10, 2008
I can't text you Brian as I do not own a cell phone...(don't really like cell phones)...but I sent you another email.
written by Brian, December 10, 2008
I haven't got the email yet. Can you do that for me?
written by Simone, December 10, 2008
Brian...I don't do "love" spells...but if this guy cast one on this girl then I could break that spell and then we can see what this girl wants to do. If you would read my comment you would see that I made that pretty clear. I need to know her name and his name.
written by Brian, December 10, 2008
Her name is Latarsha Williams and his name is David Adams
written by Simone, December 10, 2008
Okay...I'll do the counter-charm the first day of the waning moon...just after the full moon...and we'll see what happens. Just remember that she does have free-will...and I can't guarantee she will come running back to you. Fair enough?
 written by April (heroheidR), December 11, 2008
Brian, It sounds to me like you messed up. I don't think anyone ruined your holidays except for maybe you. How about this... Whatever happened, I don't really care, it's not important here nor will it make a difference on my advice.
Appologise and mean it this time. Don't do whatever you did again. If you need to get professional help for the problem... Do it. And even with all of that don't expect her to come back. You may have hurt her too badly for her to ever be able to take you back into her life. It's rather obvious to me ( I just went through something rather similar except I was on her end of things) that either you are jumping to conclusions, or are just flat out not listening to her at all. And now you want someone else to do magic for you. < GRRRRRRRR> I have to go before I say something REALLY rude.
written by Simone, December 11, 2008
Well said April. I have the sneaking suspicion that Brian did a spell himself and it's backfired...which will happen with such spells if it bounces back on the sender. Which is why I don't do such things for anyone. Like I said...I can do a counter-charm...and I will...and as to who it affects is pretty well up to the powers.
written by April (heroheidR), December 12, 2008
Simone, I have a suspision that we are not getting the whole of the story in any sense. There are things that he said that just don't add up. Like how can his girfriend choosing a different man interfere with his livelyhood and his ability to make a living? And this despiration... Well it feels pathological. I get very bad feelings off this one.
written by Simone, December 12, 2008
I agree April. Frankly I would like to speak more privately with you If I could. Do you use yahoo IM?
 written by Sir tris, December 12, 2008
Thanks all I really enjoyed the read. Try to be a little more helpfull to people. U know how bad it can be.I pick up alot on all of this. Keep your head up.and read about harming and changeing free will. I know it always seems like the new lover has changed them. but it will all work out in the end trust me.Look for that true love!!! Peace all
 written by Douglas Mefford, December 12, 2008
Well, from all the previous comments above you can see what a pickle people can put themselves in by using magic to force their will on other people\'s hearts. What everyone calls \'Love Spells\' are usually just \'Lust Spells\' with a prettier name. They have one thing in common, their entire purpose is to TRAP another person against their will and divert their personal course in life away from what they are here to accomplish.
Overcoming the baser instincts of the animal flesh is a major stepping stone in advancing to a higher more enlightened spiritual level. If you are alone in this life, meditate to see if you can determine why. It may be you have previously chosen this path so as to focus on a greater work without the distractions of partnership commitments. Are you possibly paying a karmic debt for having been a real [donkey] towards someone in the past? Whatever, the greatest good you can do for yourself is to work on becoming a lovable person and love will most likely find you in the end. The universe is a huge place and the cycles can turn on some pretty big wheels. Try using your power to help the overall condition of humanity rather than letting yourself become a self-centered bit of grit in the gears by aiming for such low desires. Peace & Excelsior!
written by April (heroheidR), December 13, 2008
Great response, Douglas.
Yeah Simone I do. I'm heroheather.
 written by Chicago, December 13, 2008
I did nothing of any sort to do any harm to no one, but greed and jeolous people are always around to destroy you if you are not careful. I am from Chicago and this is the first time I had experienced this to happen to me and it is very upsetting that people will pray on other people to get what they want by any means neccessary. I have had no contact with people like that. This is just a greed rage to get what they want. I have talked to her and she is not happy but try to play it off and I know her better than what is going on. This is not a game to me and this needs to come to an end, butg we all know it is just the beginnig of a new sector in life that we all would have to stumble across one day. But this is the time where she would have to chose on her own and not on magick to make a follow through another person wants and needs to find a way to complete a puzzle with missing pieces thatg just don't fit. This state of Georgia has alot of witchcraft going on and I don't understand it, but now I am ready to know more about the culture and to folllow through with the learning and practice not to make people create a new forced life but to get an understanding of correction and of better judgemnet of a new creation on fulling in the gap where they had missed out on. I am not wnating to just fall for me but to chose on herf own than I can accept her choice of what she want. But if she keeps coming to me every payday asking me for money something just don't add up. What do you think? Thats how I know something just ain't right. If this guy really want her she would not come to me asking me to help her, he would be able to take care of her just like I was. I just her to choose on her own than I can go on with my life and close this out than know ing that something just isn' right for both of us.
written by Chicago, December 13, 2008
You may think love spells are wrong but they are just a way of life to help a person to make the correct choices in life than it is ok to break them long as you know that the person is able to take care of theirselves and not to strugglle in life. It is a way to help than to let the person chose who they want and how they want that person not to trap that person for life. I am not try to trap that person but wanting to help that person that I love. If a person do a love spell just because they are wrong and should be punished upon the law. It woulld be selffish but I am not that way to do such of a thing. Things of a love spell should be broken for a crave oof greed and misconduct of a pass relationship that really don't last because a person just want everything their way and don't want to see things different. Let the person chose after they have got theirself on the right track. Love all of you for the comments and will talk later. Brian. Chicago
written by April (heroheidR), December 13, 2008
Listen I don't think that love spells are wrong but... This is where I'm sitting: It would be one thing for you to ask how to do it yourself, but no. You want someone else to muck around in your affairs and that is my first problem with this. The second is that things you say aren't adding up. A lot of visible magic in Georgia?? Like it wasn't more public in Chicago? Honey I live in South Carolina and I have to watch every step. If I'm too public I could get killed for my beliefs. Georgia is worse.
There is a reason that she keeps expecting you to help her. Just what was the nature of your relationship? The whole truth not just parts and pieces. If you want any hope of her coming back it's time to get honest, and you have to start by being honest with yourself.
 written by stephen j hallahan, December 15, 2008
Brian,
I am very new to the practice,however before one is to seek the divine it makes more sense to look at the psychology of the relationship.The lady in question is obviously using you (she shows up on paydays looking for "help") and you are enabling her to lead the life style you are trying to save her from by being the Patsy. I believe that if you really "love" her then you desire that which is best for her ....stop "helping her on pay days is the first move (no matter what she says ) tell her how you feel for her and how it hurts you to see her this way . This will stop her from abusing you and make her realize what it is she sees in this new beau. (think drugs or alcohol) either way be careful what you wish for, she may be playing the other gentle man the same way . this looks very dangerous to me ....and the last place I would use the craft. Think what makes her so special to you ? What advice would you give your brother if he came to you with the same problem ?
written by Chicago, December 15, 2008
That is a good point and a goood step that I need to make. I been doing it for awhile and you are right it needs to stop. That other guy is pretty much broke and what he did is wrong. He can't take care of his self rather than a family. I will do that of what you said because it gets boring. Well, thank you
written by Simone, December 15, 2008
Brian, I have done a counter-charm, just like I said I would...and we will see what happens. However, I much caution you that it sounds like this girl has her own problems to sort out and may not be inclined for any sort of a serious relationship. Oh, and it sounds like she's just using you for a money bag. My advice is to stop it and drop it dude.
written by Simone, December 15, 2008
Me mate and I live in a rather podunk little town in Southeastern KY. And it's got more christian churches than businesses around here! Most of them Baptist!
 Believe me, I know what your saying April...in the 3 years since we ended up here we've not found one single other pagan person period. People get a bit funny around here if they know you're a witch. You get these bible bangers showing up on your doorstep telling you how your going to go to hell, and some of those buggers can get violent. Not to mention getting labled as a satanist or some such muck.
written by April (heroheidR), December 15, 2008
That's exactly what I'm screaming.
I've learned to be me without setting off the "satanist" bells on those around me. Which is funny cause one of my best friends was a satanist. He was the sweetest guy you could ever meet. I really miss him this time of year.
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About 6yrs. ago I was finnaly free from a devestating relationship of 13yrs.I wish not to share it because I don't want to relive it again.
For about a year I did not date but only asked the universe to send me someone to love,well it hppened I met this man & it took him 2 weeks of asking me out on a date before I would finnaly excepted.
After our first date it was allittle rocky at first but then the relationship took off,his son even feel in love with me.
Every thing was going great ,I moved in with him & we was making a life together(I thought).
After about a year & a half I guess he was bored with me because his eyes started roaming(to me he was looking for some thing better).I wanted to know the truth because my gift that I was born with shows me things yet to come & when I am in a relationship and they cheat I can actully feel & if I concentrate I can see their every move,some times I think my gift is a curse(but I know in my heart it is a gift when I don't use it for my own personnal gain).
Well back to my point of the dangers of a love spell.
What I was feeling was true because when I asked for the truth (using my gift)I got the whole truth & nothing but the truth.
What I have been feeling was true he was cheating on me.
I caught them in bed together,I was devestated & my heart once again was broken.
I drove a truck for a living & was only home for the weekends because he wanted more money thats why I did it to keep him happy.
For 2 months I cryed & tryed to deal with another bad relationship.
Then all of asudden he started calling me again.So I forgave him,he told me that the grass is'ent allways greener on the other side.
Again our relationship took off,only this time I had my gard up.
after 2 months he started to treat me bad.So I desided to put a love spell on him,& it worked he was every thing I ever wanted.
But then I realise it was the wrong thing to do so I broke the spell.
The next day he was back to being his mean self.
All I ever wanted was to be loved by someone that I could grow old with.
After about 6 months we were back to seeing each other,with me he could eat have his cake & eat it too.
This went on for about a year.Then I met a very special person,but my former boyfriend entercepted & fought for me so with feer that this man I had met was going to get hurt,I stoped seeing him & James(the man I had been with)asked me to marry him & I did.
28 days later he walked out on me because I would not give my horse up and I wanted to move to start a clean start.
So here I am now,I desided to put another Love spell on him because I thought because he is my husbend it would be ok,only this time he is with two of us,yes he has another woman(its the same one I had caught him with & I knew this the whole time but learn to except it),I know I am my own worst enemy.
Ok now on the last full moon I did an even stronger love spell,I know in my heart he will come back to me only this time I dont want him too,but my heart wont let him go.
I both of them to hurt as bad as they hurt me.
so I put a curse on them.But I have to be carefull.
I know I have gotten mysely in a pickel.
So if you ever want to put a love spell on someone think about it very careful before doing so,make sure this is what you really want & you need to think of the consenqences before you do so....Blessed Be & Be well..Dove